Tesla Technique

The Tesla Technique

I’ve talked a lot about the concept of “best practices” but how do you implement them? How do you turn a good idea for a behavior into a habit?

I call this strategy the “Tesla Technique” and it’s been adapted from a few sources: mainly the Tiny Habits program by BJ Fogg and The Power of Habit book by Charles Duhigg, with a little bit of Mark Forster, and GTD (Getting Things Done) from David Allen.

Let’s break the strategy down.

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Weekly Review

At some point in the last twenty years, the “Getting Things Done” (or GTD) system took the world by storm. I’m going to say it was sometime around 2005 – before Merlin Mann did his Inbox Zero speech at Google, back when Twitter was a startup called Odeo. “Getting Things Done” was (and is) a system for “getting control of your time and life” that promises a “mind like water”. Essentially, better living through time management. I’m not here to talk about what works (for me) in that pile of advice and what doesn’t. There are a lot of simple, actionable nuggets to talk about. That being said, the entire system has a tendency towards the baroque and over-complicated rather than the simple, in my opinion. Interestingly, I think this is more of a problem of the way that people implement the system rather than a problem with the system itself. David Allen’s original work, I think, is basically an extended way of saying “You really are trying to do too many things: you have too many commitments and you need to cut back”. But the entire process Allen outlines is the communication, and I think it’s worth people going through once in their life, just so they can see all the little interrelated commitments spelled out in an explicit way, realize that there’s no earthly way that they can do all of this right now, cry, and then get serious about cleaning up what a real commitment is vs. what is just something that they’d like to do, “someday, maybe.”

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Adjacent Possibilty

A lot of self-help approaches the idea of improving your life from a position of perfect knowledge. This is why “The Secret” and affirmations are weird to me: they require you to have a specific vision filled out in your mind before you can actualize that vision. I think that a more interesting, practical way to pursue life is to spend it learning rather than visualizing exactly where you want to be.

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Best Practices

These are “action experiments” and it’s best if we have an established baseline to work from. Starting off fat, lazy and unhappy isn’t what this is all about – and just about any action would be an improvement over that bad scenario. What I want to do is make sure that I’m implementing the ‘best practices’ I’ve learned over the years so I can see if the experiments are an improvement over those best practices or not.

There are three interrelated ideas here: the first is having a baseline. The second is the idea of a ‘solid base’. And the third is understanding your ideal day.

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Fail Forward

How do you fail constantly and still end up successful?

Though I don’t agree with Scott Adams (creator of Dilbert) on everything, I do think that he has some interesting ideas.

Adams defines the difference between a Goal and a System in his book How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big (and also in his blog, here). A goal is kind of like taking a class that’s pass/fail that you don’t care about, but is required for your degree. You only have one way to pass the class, and that’s it. A system has more than one way of winning built into it. You you can either win in the obvious way, you can learn something, or you gain something just by participating in the process. A system has a bit more nuance to it, and almost has a “heads I win, tails you lose” kind of structure to it.

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